LIFE UWEM

To take time for one’s self is normal. But when there is an abrupt change in his privacy concerns and it is out of the normal pattern then it’s a sign that something else is going on. Suddenly he wants to do things alone, like shopping by himself, leaving alone at night, and doesnt want you to touch any of his things. Another red flag is when most of his technologies are password protected and he has set a new password on his smartphone,computer,even bank accounts, and most of all his “social media” ones. You must pay attention to those new email he is creating and multiple accounts on Facebook.

He takes his phone with him everywhere even at the bathroom and every time you want to check it he freaks out. He is also taking lots of private calls from a “relative” (mom, sister, someone untraceable which is obvious from another girl) and guarded his precious device like it’s going to be stolen. This is a sign that he is hiding something in there. When your together and He puts his phone on airplane mode (so that you can’t see incoming texts ang calls) that’s a real time to investigate.

Apparently a cheating boyfriend mostly confuses information. For example, “Didn’t we dine here?” is a clear indicator he’s been there before and not with you. His points of reference are blurred as time spent with you are confused with time spent with the other woman. He also became suddenly insensitive, like he totally forgets schedules and plans.

This one is tricky. You might see a complete withdrawal from s.ex or you might see him initiating it more. He might feel an extra charge of testosterone and confidence as a result of his new flame and feel the need to discharge it with you. On the other way around he may become less aggressive in bed because of the fact that he is thinking the other woman.

This could be another sign when he doesn’t want to take you out anymore, specially in public places – a date or even just going to the mall. Why? Because of the fear of being caught.

Never assume that just because he’s staying late at work, he’s cheating. But if you have ruled out other options and can’t see any other reasons for why he’s unreachable at work, the unexplained meetings and sudden business trips, it’s time to find out what’s happening. The simplest way to find out the truth? Check his salary stub. If he has indeed been working overtime, his salary stub will show it. So get a hold of it and you might just be able to catch him cheating on you.

Cheating guys are great liars.  You must find a way to caught him in his lying games.

A ‘struggling’ married man identified as Mr Martin Nwosu reportedly ran way as his wife was at the verge of delivering a set of twins in Abuja.

The whole scenario started when the man reportedly told the wife to abort the pregnancy, saying that he did not want to have more babies, but the woman, Gloria Johnson, refused to abort the pregnancy.

While speaking to Tribune, Mrs Johnson said that months into her pregnancy, Nwosu packed out of the house owing to his inability to live up to his financial responsibility, including failure to pay his rent.

According to her,

“when I became pregnant, I told him, he was happy but a month after that, he changed. He used to give me N1,000, but he cut it down to N500, and I have a son for him already. Anytime I complained to him that the money was small, he would tell me that there was no work.

“In the long run, he stopped coming back to the house after work, and whenever I asked him why he didn’t come back to the house, he would tell me that he had no transport money.”