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Some guys are unfaithful to their partners for different reasons, but the signs of cheating are universal. Is your relationship getting colder? Does he suddenly wants space and privacy? It might be an indication that he has another women.
You need to be aware of those things and to give you a hint, below are 13 signs that your man is cheating on you. Some are obvious while others not. Just remember, any one sign by itself is not nearly as compelling as several or a pattern.
1. His mood changes quickly.
This might be the result of him being conflicted: being with you but wanting to spend time with the new woman. Naturally it will lead to frustration, moodiness, and even anger. He may even start fights in an effort to sabotage your relationship (there’s no real reason for him to leave, so he has to create one).
2. He deviates from his baseline behavior.
People have patterns to their behaviors and after spending time with someone for a number of months/years, you’ll know what their typical behavior is. When there’s a gross distraction such as an affair, patterns will change. You know how they will act in certain situations and when they act differently, there has to be an explanation. It could be something else real and tangible — but if not, this could indicate he is cheating.
3. He has sudden change in his appearance.
Does his look changed rapidly? Is he getting in shape? Or developed a new taste in clothing and style? These changes must be a sign that a guy is cheating. Mostly men want to look fresh and new to impress a girl. It’s the body’s primal means of preparing for courtship or attracting a mate. In addition, they start taking much better care of themselves and take a lot of pride in their appearance. He’s suddenly pressing his clothes, coiffing his hair and shaving daily which he didn’t do before … especially when leaving the house without you.
4. He has an overnight change in musical taste.
There’s nothing wrong with trying new things. But when it’s out of the blue and your significant other isn’t exposed to the change, it’s a warning sign that something is amiss.
5. He becomes a shitty communicator.
Ever wondering why It takes forever for him to text you back? That’s because he’s texting countless other girls, so it takes a while for him to get back to you. The worst part is, you can’t even get in touch with him like His phone battery seems to die more than the average person’s, making him unreachable for extended periods of time. He message and talks to you less frequently. Why? Is there something wrong with his phone? None, his just too busy talking to his new bitch.
6. He’s acting distant and makes too much excuses.
Does He has stopped inviting you to join him in his favorite hangouts and activities? If you’re not going with him, who is? If he has lesser time for you (or from little to no time), cancelling your plans repeatedly, and always has an excuse why he can’t meet up with you, this is an obvious sign that he is trying to pull away from you. Why? because he’s spending his time with someone else!
7. He needs lots of privacy and became very secretive
To take time for one’s self is normal. But when there is an abrupt change in his privacy concerns and it is out of the normal pattern then it’s a sign that something else is going on. Suddenly he wants to do things alone, like shopping by himself, leaving alone at night, and doesnt want you to touch any of his things. Another red flag is when most of his technologies are password protected and he has set a new password on his smartphone,computer,even bank accounts, and most of all his “social media” ones. You must pay attention to those new email he is creating and multiple accounts on Facebook.
8. He is too attached to his phone.
He takes his phone with him everywhere even at the bathroom and every time you want to check it he freaks out. He is also taking lots of private calls from a “relative” (mom, sister, someone untraceable which is obvious from another girl) and guarded his precious device like it’s going to be stolen. This is a sign that he is hiding something in there. When your together and He puts his phone on airplane mode (so that you can’t see incoming texts ang calls) that’s a real time to investigate.
9. He remembers things wrong and confuses information.
Apparently a cheating boyfriend mostly confuses information. For example, “Didn’t we dine here?” is a clear indicator he’s been there before and not with you. His points of reference are blurred as time spent with you are confused with time spent with the other woman. He also became suddenly insensitive, like he totally forgets schedules and plans.
10. There is a sudden change in your s.exual activity.
This one is tricky. You might see a complete withdrawal from s.ex or you might see him initiating it more. He might feel an extra charge of testosterone and confidence as a result of his new flame and feel the need to discharge it with you. On the other way around he may become less aggressive in bed because of the fact that he is thinking the other woman.
11. He doesn’t want to take you out anymore.
This could be another sign when he doesn’t want to take you out anymore, specially in public places – a date or even just going to the mall. Why? Because of the fear of being caught.
12. There is more responsibilities and overtime at work.
Never assume that just because he’s staying late at work, he’s cheating. But if you have ruled out other options and can’t see any other reasons for why he’s unreachable at work, the unexplained meetings and sudden business trips, it’s time to find out what’s happening. The simplest way to find out the truth? Check his salary stub. If he has indeed been working overtime, his salary stub will show it. So get a hold of it and you might just be able to catch him cheating on you.
13. He lies and does it well.
Cheating guys are great liars. You must find a way to caught him in his lying games.
Just recently, I was forced to cook pasta because we have a leftover spaghetti sauce. It was the my first time doing it, and I don’ have any knowledge about it than just boil the water and put the pasta just like most people do. That’s what I thought! Lol!
What we didn’t know, we were cooking pasta the wrong way, and there’s an easy and quickest method to do it. All you need is a frying pan and cold water, heat it, after a few minutes removed the pasta. The remaining water can be use for making your desired sauce.
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A Nigerian businessman based in Southern Asia, Kingsley Nshiodo has been sentenced to two years imprisonment for beating up his girlfriend and threatening to stab her after she refused to have sex with him last year.
Confirming his arrest, the District penal police officer Ly Rithy, disclosed that Nshiodo was arrested by police in the early hours of December 28 2015, in Phnom Penh’s Russey Keo district after his girlfriend, 19-year-old waitress Chan Sreyneang contacted police complaining that her boyfriend had beaten and threatened to stab her after she had gone to visit him at the apartment they shared in Toul Kork village after a recent falling out.
According to the Judge Yen Saroreun, 34-year old Nshiodo have half of his sentence reduced but will be fined about $1, 000 to the state budget after being charged with an act of violence with aggravating circumstances under article 218, of the penal code.
He said: “The court convicted him to two years, but the term of his punishment is reduced to a year. The rest of his sentence was suspended. The court fines him 4 million riel [about $1, 000] to put toward the state budget.”
“We are owing the landlord
A ‘struggling’ married man identified as Mr Martin Nwosu reportedly ran way as his wife was at the verge of delivering a set of twins in Abuja.
The whole scenario started when the man reportedly told the wife to abort the pregnancy, saying that he did not want to have more babies, but the woman, Gloria Johnson, refused to abort the pregnancy.
While speaking to Tribune, Mrs Johnson said that months into her pregnancy, Nwosu packed out of the house owing to his inability to live up to his financial responsibility, including failure to pay his rent.
According to her,
“when I became pregnant, I told him, he was happy but a month after that, he changed. He used to give me N1,000, but he cut it down to N500, and I have a son for him already. Anytime I complained to him that the money was small, he would tell me that there was no work.
“In the long run, he stopped coming back to the house after work, and whenever I asked him why he didn’t come back to the house, he would tell me that he had no transport money.”
Johnson, who hails from Abak area of Akwa Ibom State, further said that when she was in labour, friends and neighbours of her husband tried getting across to him by phone to come and take her to the hospital, but he refused, until one of the neighbours took her to Asokoro General Hospital, Abuja.
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She said that Asokoro General Hospital refused to take her in because she didn’t register with them, and that she was taken to another private hospital where she was also rejected.
She said that Asokoro General Hospital refused to take her in because she didn’t register with them, and that she was taken to another private hospital where she was also rejected.
“When I was in labour, people called him on phone to come and pick me, he refused, so our neighbours took me to Asokoro Hospital but I was not registered with them and they refused to accept me. Then they took me to another private hospital, where they rejected me again and we went to another hospital where I delivered.
“Throughout that period, I was calling my husband’s number but he switched off his phone. I delivered the twins by Cesarean Session (CS) and I lost a lot blood. I can’t feed them and I can’t pay the N150,000 hospital bill,” she added.
Tribune gathered that a NYSC member, identified as Onuoha Adenike signed undertaken to take the woman out of the hospital to raise her hospital bill.
Does height really matter in either friendship or relationship?
Well the two persons in this picture are not dating, but will you go for a man shorter than you?
British-Nigerian Hollywood actor David Oyelowo is ready to give back to his fatherland, Nigeria through a foundation he is funding alongside other celebrities to bring succor to marginalized females in Nigeria.
Oyelowo is giving back through a new foundation, the GEANCO Foundation, which is creating special scholarships for female victims of acts of terror and victims of gender inequality.
Speaking with Broadway World Nigeria’s Afam Onyema, the GEANCO Co-Founder and Chief Operating Officer, said: “Through these scholarships, we will bring fresh hope to Nigeria’s most precious and vulnerable souls. This is a powerful, heartwarming response to an urgent, challenging crisis.”
According to a statement shared by Yahoo, the foundation focuses mostly on the girls who escaped or were rescued from terrorist groups and have been put through psychological torture, which include isolation by their families and communities, disrupted education, and more.
Read excerpt of the statement as published on Yahoo:
GEANCO’s special scholarship will benefit this vulnerable group of girls, in addition to girls severely disadvantaged by Nigeria’s pervasive gender inequality. It is named in honor of acclaimed British-Nigerian actor David Oyelowo (Selma, A United Kingdom, Disney’s Queen of Katwe), a strong GEANCO supporter who encouraged the scholarship’s creation and plays an active role in its funding, administration and promotion. Last year, David received GEANCO’s “Global Promise” Award at the foundation’s annual Hollywood gala in recognition of his commitment to providing better educational opportunities for Nigeria’s youth.
Speaking on the foundation coming to Nigeria, Oyelowo said: “We cannot stand idly by while thousands of innocent girls remain under serious threat. With our help, these bright and resilient girls can blossom into Nigeria’s most inspiring leaders in government, education, business, entertainment, and so much more. The way to combat oppression and injustice is to be intentional in calling it out and then seeking to affect sustainable and long-term change. That is what these Leadership scholarships are all about. We seek to nurture a generation of strong female trailblazers whose positive impact will be felt across Nigeria and around the world.”
Three scholarships will be awarded for the 2016-2017 school year. The number offered in subsequent years will depend on capacity and available funding. This year’s recipients will attend the Anglican Girls Grammar School (AGGS), a secondary school for students aged 10-15, in Abuja, Nigeria’s capital city. AGGS is an academic center of excellence known for its emphasis on science and math. Future scholarship recipients will be placed at other high-achieving schools in Nigeria.
David and Jessica Oyelowo, Oprah Winfrey, Janus Funds, Participant Media and NFL Hall of Fame quarterback Warren Moon provided the seed funding for this scholarship. GEANCO’s leadership actively seeks additional major gifts to increase the scholarship’s reach and impact.
It all started when I was 17 years old and my mother had left me under the care of my father for a whole weekend.
I used to hear my mother scream in bed while my father had $ex with her and I was always curious what really happened. On that night my father claimed he was lonely and requested me to sleep with him. watch video below .
Wahala dey oh! A community based organization of s*x workers, Ohotu Diamond Women Initiative (ODWI) has called on the Nigerian Police to stop abuse on sex workers. In a statement by the group, they lamented over what they termed the widely misunderstanding status about s*x work:
“The illegal status of s*x work in most countries, including Nigeria has not eradicated prosti-tution. Instead, criminalization has increased s*x workers vulnerability to human rights abuses and created fertile ground for police exploitation, especially of brothel and street-based s*x workers.
“S*x workers deserve the basic respect and protection from violence that each nation owes its citizens. But in many settings, police abuse of s*x workers receives scant public attention despite its entrenched global reality. Street and brothel-based female s*x workers, one of Lagos and Abuja most vulnerable populations, find themselves targeted for arrest by police, and they experience high levels of violence that go unpunished.
Current city and law enforcement policies towards s*x workers create a cycle of arrest that does not result in appropriate or long term solutions for the community or s*x workers,” the statement reads.
On the challenges s*x workers face, the Ashawo group said: “The challenge that we face as 50 participants from different L.G.As are almost similar. Many of us face violence and discrimination on a regular basis. Regardless of which State or tribe we are from, many of us have experienced being r*ped, verbally, emotionally and physically abused by police, clients and community members.
“There is an unfair discrimination from service providers. S*x workers are not protected or defended by the law when they are exploited and abused. We demand that these violations stop immediately and decisive action is taken against perpetrators.”
The statement further revealed how s*x workers suffer abuse from the Nigerian Police Officers.
“Thirty percent of s*x workers interviewed said that they had been threatened with violence by police officers, while 27% actually experienced violence at the hands of police. Reported incidents included officers physically grabbing and kicking, as well as beating them; one incident of r*pe; one woman was stalked by a police officer; and throwing food at one subject.
S*xual harassment included handling of body parts; giving women cigarettes in exchange for s*x; and police offering not to arrest s*x workers in exchange for s*xual services.
"Several times Police have raided our hotels; beating, stealing and having s*x with us without protection."
To curtail the abuses s*x workers suffer from Policemen, the Executive Director of Safe Haven Development Initiative, Ms Margaret Onah has criticised the method of which Policemen uses to extort money from s*x workers and abuse.
According to Onah, the Nigerian Policemen are not mindful of the fundamental human rights that should be accorded to s*x workers.
“It is dehumanising when Policemen abuses s*x workers the way they do. We are using this channel to voice out our pains in the course of survival. The government needs to do something about it. It is better if s*x workers are charged to court than naming them, harassing them, stealing their money, stealing their properties, and having s*x with them unprotected.”
On what could be done to end the abuse by Policemen, Ms Margaret said: “the Police needs to re-strategise. The fact that s*x work is illegal doesn’t mean that they should kill anyone find doing the job. S*x workers are citizen of this country first of all, and they need to be respected like every other citizen.”
One of the Ashawo girls, Esther Eghosa said: “Time without numbers, the Policemen break our doors to start packing us like goats to the station. If you don’t have money to bail yourself, they will say they want to sleep with you unprotected which is very bad.
Eghosa, who is a s*x worker, further stress that, “As a woman in the brothel, we protect ourselves, we use condoms, but with the Policemen, you don’t have a say.”
“The illegal status of s*x work in most countries, including Nigeria has not eradicated prosti-tution. Instead, criminalization has increased s*x workers vulnerability to human rights abuses and created fertile ground for police exploitation, especially of brothel and street-based s*x workers.
“S*x workers deserve the basic respect and protection from violence that each nation owes its citizens. But in many settings, police abuse of s*x workers receives scant public attention despite its entrenched global reality. Street and brothel-based female s*x workers, one of Lagos and Abuja most vulnerable populations, find themselves targeted for arrest by police, and they experience high levels of violence that go unpunished.
Current city and law enforcement policies towards s*x workers create a cycle of arrest that does not result in appropriate or long term solutions for the community or s*x workers,” the statement reads.
On the challenges s*x workers face, the Ashawo group said: “The challenge that we face as 50 participants from different L.G.As are almost similar. Many of us face violence and discrimination on a regular basis. Regardless of which State or tribe we are from, many of us have experienced being r*ped, verbally, emotionally and physically abused by police, clients and community members.
“There is an unfair discrimination from service providers. S*x workers are not protected or defended by the law when they are exploited and abused. We demand that these violations stop immediately and decisive action is taken against perpetrators.”
The statement further revealed how s*x workers suffer abuse from the Nigerian Police Officers.
“Thirty percent of s*x workers interviewed said that they had been threatened with violence by police officers, while 27% actually experienced violence at the hands of police. Reported incidents included officers physically grabbing and kicking, as well as beating them; one incident of r*pe; one woman was stalked by a police officer; and throwing food at one subject.
S*xual harassment included handling of body parts; giving women cigarettes in exchange for s*x; and police offering not to arrest s*x workers in exchange for s*xual services.
"Several times Police have raided our hotels; beating, stealing and having s*x with us without protection."
To curtail the abuses s*x workers suffer from Policemen, the Executive Director of Safe Haven Development Initiative, Ms Margaret Onah has criticised the method of which Policemen uses to extort money from s*x workers and abuse.
According to Onah, the Nigerian Policemen are not mindful of the fundamental human rights that should be accorded to s*x workers.
“It is dehumanising when Policemen abuses s*x workers the way they do. We are using this channel to voice out our pains in the course of survival. The government needs to do something about it. It is better if s*x workers are charged to court than naming them, harassing them, stealing their money, stealing their properties, and having s*x with them unprotected.”
On what could be done to end the abuse by Policemen, Ms Margaret said: “the Police needs to re-strategise. The fact that s*x work is illegal doesn’t mean that they should kill anyone find doing the job. S*x workers are citizen of this country first of all, and they need to be respected like every other citizen.”
One of the Ashawo girls, Esther Eghosa said: “Time without numbers, the Policemen break our doors to start packing us like goats to the station. If you don’t have money to bail yourself, they will say they want to sleep with you unprotected which is very bad.
Eghosa, who is a s*x worker, further stress that, “As a woman in the brothel, we protect ourselves, we use condoms, but with the Policemen, you don’t have a say.”
Temptation comes in different forms and shades...Oga make sure you think twice before you fall...lol!
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I seriously like the folks at Naijas Craziest! I really enjoy watching their sarcastic parody! If you’re the type to take offense in little things..Then their type of Comedy isn’t for you.
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The President of Nigeria Mohammadu Buhari went for Deliverance at The Synagogue Church of all Nations with Prophet TB Joshua for Healing after battling with some health issues ear infection and alleged Brain Cancer after traveling to London to get it treated with no result on emmanuel tv.The Problem started when the president was sleeping he was attacked with spiritually slap on one ear.
A young man who died out of police brutality in Ghana has been buried in style to avenge his death. 22-year-old boy Richmond Osei aka Tawiah who died out of police brutality, was laid to rest on Thursday, with the family going diabolical for those responsible. He was allegedly brutalized to death by the police on patrol duties after he was mistaken as a thief.
The family put some items such as eggs, cutlass, bullet cartridge, knife,
a piece of kente cloth, a pair of shoes, cup and a broom in his casket. The items, according to them, are meant to aid Tawiah in the spirit world to avenge his death. . His aunt said she had 'nsamankom' (a trance that enables the living to interact with the dead) and he instructed the family through her to put the items in the coffin to avenge his untimely death. The family contested the autopsy report which said he died of natural causes. The report concluded that Tawiah died of a heart attack. In an interview, one of the family members said: "its all about tradition, we want him to haunt his killers by using these items, he shouldn’t allow them to go scot free, he should deal with them in equal measure, we want him to use the cutlass to butcher the police involved in the act and any management member of the Komfo Anokye Teaching Hospital (KATH) who also has a hand in his death."
The family put some items such as eggs, cutlass, bullet cartridge, knife,
a piece of kente cloth, a pair of shoes, cup and a broom in his casket. The items, according to them, are meant to aid Tawiah in the spirit world to avenge his death. . His aunt said she had 'nsamankom' (a trance that enables the living to interact with the dead) and he instructed the family through her to put the items in the coffin to avenge his untimely death. The family contested the autopsy report which said he died of natural causes. The report concluded that Tawiah died of a heart attack. In an interview, one of the family members said: "its all about tradition, we want him to haunt his killers by using these items, he shouldn’t allow them to go scot free, he should deal with them in equal measure, we want him to use the cutlass to butcher the police involved in the act and any management member of the Komfo Anokye Teaching Hospital (KATH) who also has a hand in his death."
You may believe your wife is the most stunning woman alive, but there are a few common things even the best men do that can leave the woman they love feeling unattractive.Men, this article is not to shame you – it’s to help you steer clear of these things.
1. Fail to compliment her efforts
You are the one person on earth whose opinion she values most. She needs to know you think she’s stunning both during the times she makes extra effort (i.e. takes a shower rather than just using dry shampoo), and the days she’s sick in bed.If you’re not noticing out loud how beautiful she is, she’s likely interpreting your silence as disapproval.
2. Praise another woman with words you’ve never used for your wife
If you are referring to a woman as drop dead gorgeous, and you’ve never used such powerful descriptions to describe your wife, it’s devastating to her.
She knows you find other women attractive, and for the most part, she’s OK with that. But when you emphatically compliment another woman, your wife feels like you are comparing her to that woman and she’s the one not measuring up. Your comments may be innocent, but it’s a dagger in your wife’s heart.
3. Look at p****graphy
Nothing will make your wife feel more despairingly inadequate than you looking at p****graphy. There is never room for this in a marriage.
This is a neon sign to your wife telling her she is not good enough. As time goes by and you continue to look at p****graphy, you’ll come to believe that about her as well.
4. Not initiating a hug or kiss
Withholding physical affection except when you want to be intimate makes her feel used and undesirable.Try kissing your wife on the forehead one evening and telling her you love her. If you do this just because you love her, with no expectation of having s*x after, she’ll feel beautiful and adored.
5. Do a double take when another woman walks by
We know you’re wired to notice and appreciate beauty, but please learn not to gawk.Similar to the reasons explained in complimenting another woman, you cannot understand how deeply it hurts your wife to see you check out another woman. (And trust me: She notices, even when she doesn’t say anything.)
6. Peak at your phone while your sweetheart is talking
Make eye contact with your wife when she is talking to you. It sounds simple, but it’s a common problem.If you’re staring at your phone while she’s talking, she’ll start to wonder what’s wrong with her — even if you’re only checking ESPN for the halftime score. Help her feel beautiful by prioritizing her over your Facebook feed.
To be fair, feeling beautiful is complicated, and you alone can’t convince her that she is. Only your wife can develop her inner confidence; but you can do a great deal to damage or build her up in these subtle ways.
– Information Nigeria
Lots of eulogies have been coming in from all
angles for late music producer and singer, OJB
Jezreel, who passed on in the early hours of
Tuesday, June14, 2016. Not many tend to have liked the singer especially
with the fact that he made public his health
challenges some years in need of help but was
ridiculed in some quarters. For Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade Ekehinde, it
is not easy speaking about someone like OJB,
whom according to her she has so much respect
for.
angles for late music producer and singer, OJB
Jezreel, who passed on in the early hours of
Tuesday, June14, 2016. Not many tend to have liked the singer especially
with the fact that he made public his health
challenges some years in need of help but was
ridiculed in some quarters. For Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade Ekehinde, it
is not easy speaking about someone like OJB,
whom according to her she has so much respect
for.
The actress stated that she hates eulogizing people
but she could not hide her feelings for the late
singer whom she describes as a supportive and
very humble fellow.
but she could not hide her feelings for the late
singer whom she describes as a supportive and
very humble fellow.
According to her, “I’ve always hated eulogies but wow OJB! You
were kind, humble and supportive. Producing
my first album, you moved into my home for
about 2weeks.!
were kind, humble and supportive. Producing
my first album, you moved into my home for
about 2weeks.!
We talked about a lot even till recently. May all
your loved ones find solace in knowing you
are a legend. celebrating the gift of Ojb.”
your loved ones find solace in knowing you
are a legend. celebrating the gift of Ojb.”
If you would like to show your woman a good time and pamper her, then these moves are your best bets. Get ready to lead her to the highest pleasure peak.
Is it your woman’s birthday, Valentines Day or do you simply want to take time out to pamper your woman s*xually? Choosing the right s*x moves will help you achieve this and totally drive her crazy, in a good way.
These four s*x positions are perfect if you want to make this all about her pleasure.
(1) Gentle Missionary:
Instead of just ramming in and out while on top of her, how about you take things slow. The v*gina is filled with so many nerve endings that every single move will send pleasurable tingles up her spine, so, no need to rush. ‘Jackhammering’ away at her during missionary only helps you as men prefer rougher moves, but if you really want to make this about her, then go gently. Let her feel you from the tip down to the base and slowly push her over the edge.
(2) Lying-down Doggy
There are some perks to doggy style s*x but you can amplify them by making her lie down as you enter her as opposed to having her on her knees. She can lie on her stomach while you put a pillow or cloth underneath her pelvis for easier access. Suggest she keeps her legs closed so she can feel the friction completely. Orgasmic.
(3) Sit and Ride
You sit on the bed with your legs spread in front of you and she lowers herself on you, facing you. It is a variation of the Cowgirl s*x position except that you are sitting up. She does less of the work as you are in a prime position to grab her and move against her. It is also an intimate move as literally get to stay in an embrace. You can hold her, look in her eyes and whisper loving words that will caress her heart.
(4) Head Game
Go down on her, simple! or*l s*x can be the most selfless s*x act. This is your opportunity to make $ex completely about just her pleasure. All she needs to do is lie down, relax and enjoy. No hotter example of total pampering